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Here you will find articles that address various emotional, physical, behavioral and spiritual symptoms that are often part of the eating disorder experience.

 

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Debasement, Trudging, Self-Worth: Includes Reader Responses

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Debasement puts you in an eating disorder trap

Debasement and Self-Criticism: The Trap

If you have an eating disorder, you often feel insecure and question your value as a person. You are certain that the criticism you give yourself is an echo of the criticism you believe is aimed at you from others. No amount of reassurance will alter your position. Reassurance, you believe, comes from people who mean well, are trying to soothe you, don't understand the reality of your worthlessness or are trying to exploit you by making you believe you are better than you know you are.

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Dangerous Sexual Liaisons and Women With Eating Disorders

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Dangerous Sexual Liaisons and Women with Eating Disorders

Sexual Victimization, Trauma, & Resilience to Disordered EatingSexual Victimization, Trauma, & Resilience to Disordered Eating

Age, looks, or smiling faces are not indications of freedom from dangerous sexual liaisons, just as appearance is not reliable evidence indicating the presence or absence of an eating disorder.

An eating disorder can thrust a woman into dangerous sexual experiences. She may not know she is walking into danger. She may not recognize the danger while it is actually happening to her because she is in a dissociative state or deep in an unrealistic fantasy.

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Night Eating and Weight Gain: Importance of Sleep

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sleeping person head pillows"Sleep that knits the raveled sleeve of care." William Shakespeare

A person with an eating disorder often misinterprets body signals. You may tend to avoid sleep when you are tired. When feelings of tiredness turn into food cravings, rather than getting the rest you need, trouble is brewing.

When you suffer from an eating disorder, you've made an unconscious contract that involves your mind, spirit and body. Your contract states that any thoughts or feelings that are painful or disruptive must be blocked. Your body must process its energy so you can remain unaware of your authentic responses.

So you eat or starve or binge and purge or compulsively or mindlessly eat to block your feelings and thoughts. Over time, the contract gets refined so you can feel almost anything and register the feeling as hunger.

When you feel tired, you may experience fatigue as a trigger to eat. This situation develops into a pattern where you may avoid sleep by eating instead of sleeping.

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Eating Disorders at Work: What Should You Do?

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Suppose you see or know or suspect that an employee has an eating disorder. What should you do? Here's a guest article by Joy Nollenberg, director of The Joy Project addressing this issue. She wants readers to know that legal issues abound in this realm and that her words are not legal advice. In other words, check out your legal position before embarking on a workplace confrontation.

There may be times when someone in the workplace appears to be very ill with an eating disorder. This can be a difficult situation with many potential pitfalls. It's important to keep these points in mind.

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  1. How Is Your Vision? Anorexia Is Associated with Eye Damage
  2. Full Bulimia Episode Story in 5 Parts: Caution Could Be Triggering - Part 5
  3. Panic Attack Can Be Part of Your Eating Disorder Experience
  4. Eating Disorder Relapse or Recovery Opportunity?
  5. Full Bulimia Episode Story in 5 Parts: Caution Could Be Triggering - Part 4
  6. Slippery Slope Dangers: How to Stay in Eating Disorder Recovery
  7. Full Bulimia Episode Story in 5 Parts: Caution Could Be Triggering - Part 3
  8. Can You Offer Health and Hope to Woman Trapped in Pro-Ana?
  9. Full Bulimia Episode Story in 5 Parts: Caution Could Be Triggering - Part 2
  10. Body Image, Self Love, Self Respect and Tenderness

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