How's this for a thought? If you believe all a man wants is your sexuality then you are thinking and feeling a lot about your sexuality. You may be angry in advance and shut down many aspects of your personality. If you shut down too much then all that is left is your anger and your thinking about sexuality. Your anger may push him away. Your absorption in sexual thinking may put out a powerful sexual vibe without much of your personality or feelings involved in making genuine connection. If this is near the truth then the man see two limited options: take punishment from an angry woman or have sex with a woman who only offers a sexual connection and remains aloof regarding emotional connection. What do you think? Possible? Joanna