It's a sign of healing and healthy maturity when you can recognize your limits and make wise decisions for your well being. I'm glad my writings on the Black Swan helped you in making a self caring plan. The movie is brilliant and powerful. You are right. If a person is vulnerable they need to be prepared. The women caught in the pro ana and pro mia currents may be oblivious to their vulnerability. Their highly selected and distorted points of view disregard the cautionary tale and focus on what seems to reinforce their illness. The fact that you can debate with yourself means that you are aware of different sides of your inner conflicts. That's vital for being able to make wise choices. Well done!