I agree that the ED can compromise your dreams, but I am putting myself out there, trying to meet guys. I'm sure if I was in a relationship either the relationship would suffer because of the ED, or the ED would suffer because of the relationship, not sure which would happen. I feel like, for the most party, I live my life the same as I would if I didn't have an ED. Obviously there are somethings that would be different, like food choices, or choosing exercise over something else, but I feel like I live a pretty full life. My biggest crossroad right now is trying to figure out if I want to change or if I want to stay where I am. When I make that decision, then we'll see how hard things are...if I choose to get better. Then we hit the "can I really do this on my own" question. Everything is so complicated.