Dear Laura,

First, there is no spam happening on the forum or anywhere else on this site.  Our work is to keep it that way.  This is a challenge right now as we get the new systems working in harmony on this new website.

FYI:  Susieuser and Jennix is my web designer.  Treya is me. 

And yes, Kym and Laura, I will write about shame soon.

Laura, it's pretty terrific that you recognize shame.  Too often people simple believe the terrible things they say to themselves without realizing shame is governing their thoughts.  I'll look for the TED talk.