Tracy, I'm not hurt or offended, I'm a little bit upset that my feelings have had that impact upon you - but not in a way that you need to be concerned about - I wouldn't be human if I wasn't a bit bothered by it, would I? I guess really I'm just a bit sad that we had to go through the things that put us in this position in the first place...but teven then, there is a little part of me that thinks, well they made me who I am, and te core of who I am, I actually quite like...so "surviving" has it's positive side too. Take Care Tracy - I think you are dealing with all this in an admirable way! xx