Tracy I suffered with the clumseyness for quite a while. I'm not used to the space my body now takes up. I'm not used to opening up through my shoulders. Now as I practice that, I catch door frames and door jams often. It is ok for me to be the size I am. I refuse to shrink to gain anyone else's approval. This isn't Wonderland. I'm not going to be umpteen different sizes to please all those that are in the rabbit hole.