Yes, I can tell you all that I am finally working on all this crap that has eroded my very being and set the course of my life for so long. Taking off from work has enabled me to really work diligently and fervently on my abuse history. Girls, I am not the same person I was even a month ago. I am determined. I had to get angry. Really really angry at all those who kept MY silence for so long. Those who lied to themselves even. I think my mom had a similar experience with her father (my grandfather)-all the signs are there. But, I can only work on me right now. Joanna, I do plan to respond to the discovery ? as well. They are excellent food for thought!