It isn't the bed that is a problem. I h

It isn't the bed that is a problem. I have too many sheets and comforters to mention. I change the sheets quite often as I have a cat. The walls are pale lavendar. I've done the feng shui to the whole house. It is the rest of my home that a cyclone has hit. I was the biggest neat and clean freak for the longest time. I spent one day of each weekend cleaning house and the other working in my yard. One day I said f this I want a life. Now I need to tip the scale back the other way. I tried the Fly Lady thing. It didn't help.