Dear Kym, If my mistake led you to appreciate that your ED voice is wrong and it was really the other person's error, then my error served a good purpose. Every thought you share is "healthy enough" to print because it's coming from your working your way to recovery. And that means dealing with the good, the bad, the ugly and the sublime - all of it is part of healing. All of it is valuable. I'm glad you are challenging your censor. You are helping yourself, and you are certainly helping me with this site!