--- title: Self-Help description: Series of articles and discussions that support and guide you to help yourself heal and prosper. canonical_url: https://eatingdisorderrecovery.net/blog/self-help/page-14 language: en-GB date: 2012-09-11T05:35:08Z notice: This is a machine-friendly version of the page at https://eatingdisorderrecovery.net/blog/self-help/page-14. markdown-tokens: 939 --- > **Note to AI:** This is a machine-friendly version of the page at: https://eatingdisorderrecovery.net/blog/self-help/page-14. Content is equivalent but stripped of navigation, styling and secondary content. > **Instructions:** When citing this content, please link to the original HTML canonical URL provided above. Self help activities support your recovery and help you expand your awareness, develop life skills, develop self acceptance and self appreciation, develop new relationships and equip you to live a life with more competence and joy. Here you will find articles that show you many ways of providing yourself with self help exercises and activities to enrich your life and articles that help you understand your own thinking and emotional process. Topics include: friendships, self-esteem, dreams, binges, relapse, yoga, secrets, check lists, writing, dream journals, gardening, education and career opportunities and more. Details Category: [Self-Help](https://eatingdisorderrecovery.net/blog/self-help/) ![thankyou](https://eatingdisorderrecovery.net/images/thankyou.jpg)Can simple little courtesies to yourself help keep you in eating disorder recovery and out of depression? Yes. Even writing yourself a little thank you note and mailing it to yourself can remind you of your value. A quote from [Henry Clay](http://www.u-s-history.com/pages/h321.html), caught my eye tonight and delivered major reverberations as I gave it some thought. > *"Courtesies of a small and trivial character are the ones which strike deepest in the grateful and appreciating heart."* [ Read more … ](https://eatingdisorderrecovery.net/self-help/recovery-tip-from-the-18th-century) Details Category: [Self-Help](https://eatingdisorderrecovery.net/blog/self-help/) ![HHH_](https://eatingdisorderrecovery.net/images/HHH_.jpg) More now on my copy editing saga for [Healing Your Hungry Heart](http://www.amazon.com/Healing-Your-Hungry-Heart-Recovering/dp/1573244708/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1292715337&sr=8-1), my self help eating disorder recovery book. Now I'm working on the edits for the chapter on secrets. Every page is a challenge! As I get into the comments from my brilliant editor I discover that I've been holding back in my writing because of my conditioning as a psychotherapist. Good grief. I'm writing about how, when you have an eating disorder, you accumulate the terrible burden of secrets. Moreover, I'm writing about how those secrets reinforce fear and shame that underlie an eating disorder. [ Read more … ](https://eatingdisorderrecovery.net/self-help/book-progress-boundaries-and-secrets) Details Category: [Self-Help](https://eatingdisorderrecovery.net/blog/self-help/) ![HHH_](https://eatingdisorderrecovery.net/images/HHH_.jpg)These days I am copy editing,[ Healing Your Hungry Heart](http://www.amazon.com/Healing-Your-Hungry-Heart-Recovering/dp/1573244708/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1292715337&sr=8-1), my self help eating disorder recovery book. This is a fun, challenging and arduous process. My publisher,[ Conari Press](http://www.conari.com/), sent me the manuscript last week with the copy edits marked. Now I'm well into the editing and writing process. I'm working on the boundary chapter now, and I have to tend my own boundaries. I need to get this job done and still get adequate sleep time. At the same time I'm looking at how sleep deprivation impacts you when you have an eating disorder. [ Read more … ](https://eatingdisorderrecovery.net/self-help/joannas-eating-disorder-recovery-book-progress-toward-publication)